Dump the Pressure With This One Question

Dump the Pressure With This One Question

Have you ever got jazzed about something, a bold new haircut or fun pair of shoes, and then started to second-guess it immediately?  Last week, that was me.  I had just gotten my nails done for the first time in for-ev-er, and before the paint dried I started debating...
The Best Advice I’ve Heard All Year

The Best Advice I’ve Heard All Year

“Can I tell you something?”  I could tell by the way my new friend asked the question, she had a bit of feedback. Most likely something she thought I might not want to hear.  “Of course,” I said, feeling like I just got a “we need to talk” text from a high school...
I Immediately Regretted It

I Immediately Regretted It

While we all know that comparison is the thief of joy, you might be subconsciously encouraging this happiness bandit, and I don’t just mean scrolling the Arch Digest Insta feed.  I’ve found a new means of comparison in my own life, and spoiler alert, it sucks. Like...
Did I Get This Wrong?

Did I Get This Wrong?

Last week I shared decision-making tricks to improve your ability to follow through on what you say you want to do. I’ve used them all myself and know they can be helpful, BUT… I’m rethinking them. It started with the most popular option (and one I’ve used the...